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FAILURE
Starting a new church in a foreign language and culture will be one of the most difficult things you could do in your life. It is an endeavor set up for failure… unless you define success in a biblical way. For instance, we do not measure success in evangelism by the number of people who respond. That is their decision in concert with the Word of God and the Spirit of God. There is absolutely nothing we can do to force someone into heaven. So we do not measure our success by "how many get saved." We can measure success by how much time we spend in evangelism. We can evaluate whether or not our methods are appropriate for each culture. We will work hard at evangelism and evaluate our approach. The same is true in every area of our ministry. There is a delicate balance between faithfulness and effectiveness. The value of having team members and field leadership is that all can agree that the team members are on target. The results are up to God.

FAMILY STRESS
Raising your children in a foreign country will definitely be different. They may not have a Christian school, American food, AWANA or youth program. They will leave their friends and family. Learning a new language and culture will definitely stress your family. But since when is stress not a good thing? Check out James 1. One of the best gifts you can give your children is the opportunity to grow up in a different culture. In many instances, missionary kids are more spiritual and socially advanced than their peers. They learn to minister at a young age. If you want to give your kids a head start in life, the mission field is a great place to do that.

HEALTH
When North American missions was in its infancy, missionaries had to be physically fit. They rode bicycles, horses and many times walked. Good medical care was not accessible. But the world has changed. Most of the people of the world live in cities…modern cities. Often there is superior medical care in other countries of the world. The bonus is that many times the costs are considerably cheaper. Medical insurance is certainly much cheaper for those living outside the U.S.A. So if you struggle with health issues, you might as well struggle there as here!

LANGUAGE LEARNING
The thought of learning another language at your age leaves you cold. High School French or Spanish was more than you could handle. So to think of going overseas to learn a new language is formidable. And be assured of one thing…learning a new language is a huge challenge. But personalized testing during candidate orientation will help you determine how you can best learn. You will be coached through this process. You can learn a new language. You did it once! You are reading this in a language you once did not know.

LEAVING FAMILY
Yes, missions does mean saying farewell to mother and father, brother and sister, friends and neighbors. There is no way to be a missionary without leaving those you care for most. It is definitely a sacrifice. But it is one that Christ called us to. This is part of being a disciple. It is a matter of obedience. But there is an "up-side." Many families who live in the same town and the same street can take each other for granted. Since missionaries see their family only every few years, the reunion is intense. It is meaningful. The person who eats cake three times a day does not appreciate it like the person who has cake once a year.

LIVING ON HAND-OUTS
Often, people picture missionaries as begging for money and scraping by financially. Part of this is due to misunderstanding the nature of the "service industry." In the marketplace, there are hundreds of occupations where people render the service of ideas: lawyers, computer consultants, corporate trainers, etc. People in ministry are much the same - we bring God's ideas to bear on the human soul. If you have a lawsuit on your hands, you could go to court yourself; but most people would prefer to hire someone to represent them. They would pay the lawyer for their services, and expect to get periodic correspondence as to how things were going. In ministry, a church could plant a church overseas on its own; but most churches prefer to retain the services of a church-planter, pay them for their services, and expect to get periodic correspondence as to how things were going. Missionaries are not "beggars" but are involved in very "professional" type work.

RAISING SUPPORT
You just don't like the idea of months of traveling from church to church asking people to promise you monthly support. Or it may be that you are afraid to get on the phone to make the appointment in the first place. Unless you have a sending church that will take on 100% of your support, doing deputation is the stepping stone to the mission field. But this is an incredible learning experience. It prepares you for missionary work in many ways. For instance, if you won't initiate contacts here in your own culture, you will struggle with evangelism as you try to make contacts in a new language and culture. If you are not willing to put up with some hardship here, you'll "fold" there. If you cannot be patient here, you will not have the tenacity to stick with it there. If you can't trust God here, you're not going to muster up faith there. While we might wish for a guaranteed salary from the first day we apply to a mission agency, it just doesn't happen. Your level of commitment to international ministries is tested right up front. If you are not willing to do what may be distasteful now, you probably shouldn't think of going to the mission field.

SAFETY
Physical safety is a major issue when living in another country. While it is true that many places may not be as safe as where you live in the U.S.A., it would also be true that there are just as many places that are safer. But that is not really the issue. Following Christ means burning all your bridges. Total surrender is total. It could be that your calling in life is martyrdom. But on the flip side, missionaries proceed with caution. Even in the most challenging situations they are careful about safety. BMW provides the training and back up to make wise decisions about safety. Administration is equipped to handle crisis situations. And ultimately, the safest place to live is in the will of God. If it is His will to live overseas, then it is safer to do so, than remain where you are.

TOO OLD
This was a problem 50 years ago. Many mission agencies would not accept your application if you were over 28 years old. But today, we are asking the opposite question: "are you too young?" The average age of people going to the mission field for the first time is between 35 and 40. That is a huge shift…but a good shift. At that point in your life, you are probably a little more settled into your marriage and family life. You probably have more experience in ministry and life. It is a great time to be heading to the field. In the past, missionaries would retire at 65, now some are beginning their missionary career at that age. So, don't let your age stand in the way of getting involved. In fact, your "old age" may be one of your best assets.

UNTRAINED
At one time, mission agencies would accept only those who had 30 hours of Bible in a recognized institution and who had completed the program. BMW is very much concerned that you are adequately trained. We just don't care how that happened. There are many people who have never been to Bible College but know their Bible better than a graduate. A church-based trained person may have much more ministry experience than an institutionally trained person. You may be closer to being qualified to serve on the mission field than you think. Let's talk!

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