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FACING
YOUR FEARS
ABOUT MISSIONS
FAILURE
Starting
a new church in a foreign language and culture will be one of the
most difficult things you could do in your life. It is an endeavor
set up for failure
unless you define success in a biblical
way. For instance, we do not measure success in evangelism by the
number of people who respond. That is their decision in concert
with the Word of God and the Spirit of God. There is absolutely
nothing we can do to force someone into heaven. So we do not measure
our success by "how many get saved." We can measure success
by how much time we spend in evangelism. We can evaluate whether
or not our methods are appropriate for each culture. We will work
hard at evangelism and evaluate our approach. The same is true in
every area of our ministry. There is a delicate balance between
faithfulness and effectiveness. The value of having team members
and field leadership is that all can agree that the team members
are on target. The results are up to God.
FAMILY
STRESS
Raising
your children in a foreign country will definitely be different.
They may not have a Christian school, American food, AWANA or youth
program. They will leave their friends and family. Learning a new
language and culture will definitely stress your family. But since
when is stress not a good thing? Check out James 1. One of the best
gifts you can give your children is the opportunity to grow up in
a different culture. In many instances, missionary kids are more
spiritual and socially advanced than their peers. They learn to
minister at a young age. If you want to give your kids a head start
in life, the mission field is a great place to do that.
HEALTH
When
North American missions was in its infancy, missionaries had to
be physically fit. They rode bicycles, horses and many times walked.
Good medical care was not accessible. But the world has changed.
Most of the people of the world live in cities
modern cities.
Often there is superior medical care in other countries of the world.
The bonus is that many times the costs are considerably cheaper.
Medical insurance is certainly much cheaper for those living outside
the U.S.A. So if you struggle with health issues, you might as well
struggle there as here!
LANGUAGE
LEARNING
The thought of learning another language at your age leaves you
cold. High School French or Spanish was more than you could handle.
So to think of going overseas to learn a new language is formidable.
And be assured of one thing
learning a new language is a huge
challenge. But personalized testing during candidate orientation
will help you determine how you can best learn. You will be coached
through this process. You can learn a new language. You did it once!
You are reading this in a language you once did not know.
LEAVING
FAMILY
Yes,
missions does mean saying farewell to mother and father, brother
and sister, friends and neighbors. There is no way to be a missionary
without leaving those you care for most. It is definitely a sacrifice.
But it is one that Christ called us to. This is part of being a
disciple. It is a matter of obedience. But there is an "up-side."
Many families who live in the same town and the same street can
take each other for granted. Since missionaries see their family
only every few years, the reunion is intense. It is meaningful.
The person who eats cake three times a day does not appreciate it
like the person who has cake once a year.
LIVING
ON HAND-OUTS
Often, people picture missionaries as begging for money and scraping
by financially. Part of this is due to misunderstanding the nature
of the "service industry." In the marketplace, there are
hundreds of occupations where people render the service of ideas:
lawyers, computer consultants, corporate trainers, etc. People in
ministry are much the same - we bring God's ideas to bear on the
human soul. If you have a lawsuit on your hands, you could go to
court yourself; but most people would prefer to hire someone to
represent them. They would pay the lawyer for their services, and
expect to get periodic correspondence as to how things were going.
In ministry, a church could plant a church overseas on its own;
but most churches prefer to retain the services of a church-planter,
pay them for their services, and expect to get periodic correspondence
as to how things were going. Missionaries are not "beggars"
but are involved in very "professional" type work.
RAISING
SUPPORT
You
just don't like the idea of months of traveling from church to church
asking people to promise you monthly support. Or it may be that
you are afraid to get on the phone to make the appointment in the
first place. Unless you have a sending church that will take on
100% of your support, doing deputation is the stepping stone to
the mission field. But this is an incredible learning experience.
It prepares you for missionary work in many ways. For instance,
if you won't initiate contacts here in your own culture, you will
struggle with evangelism as you try to make contacts in a new language
and culture. If you are not willing to put up with some hardship
here, you'll "fold" there. If you cannot be patient here,
you will not have the tenacity to stick with it there. If you can't
trust God here, you're not going to muster up faith there. While
we might wish for a guaranteed salary from the first day we apply
to a mission agency, it just doesn't happen. Your level of commitment
to international ministries is tested right up front. If you are
not willing to do what may be distasteful now, you probably shouldn't
think of going to the mission field.
SAFETY
Physical safety is a major issue when living in another country.
While it is true that many places may not be as safe as where you
live in the U.S.A., it would also be true that there are just as
many places that are safer. But that is not really the issue. Following
Christ means burning all your bridges. Total surrender is total.
It could be that your calling in life is martyrdom. But on the flip
side, missionaries proceed with caution. Even in the most challenging
situations they are careful about safety. BMW provides the training
and back up to make wise decisions about safety. Administration
is equipped to handle crisis situations. And ultimately, the safest
place to live is in the will of God. If it is His will to live overseas,
then it is safer to do so, than remain where you are.
TOO
OLD
This
was a problem 50 years ago. Many mission agencies would not accept
your application if you were over 28 years old. But today, we are
asking the opposite question: "are you too young?" The
average age of people going to the mission field for the first time
is between 35 and 40. That is a huge shift
but a good shift.
At that point in your life, you are probably a little more settled
into your marriage and family life. You probably have more experience
in ministry and life. It is a great time to be heading to the field.
In the past, missionaries would retire at 65, now some are beginning
their missionary career at that age. So, don't let your age stand
in the way of getting involved. In fact, your "old age"
may be one of your best assets.
UNTRAINED
At one time, mission agencies would accept only those who had 30
hours of Bible in a recognized institution and who had completed
the program. BMW is very much concerned that you are adequately
trained. We just don't care how that happened. There are many people
who have never been to Bible College but know their Bible better
than a graduate. A church-based trained person may have much more
ministry experience than an institutionally trained person. You
may be closer to being qualified to serve on the mission field than
you think. Let's talk!
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